Posted by admin on 28 June 2009
I’m coping with my second breakup in a few months, and my pain has eased off considerably since the last post. If you got dumped or have some other difficult emotions that you can’t let go of, I know where you’re coming from. This might become a somewhat longer article, but if you’re like me, letting some time pass might not seem like such a bad idea in your state. Read the rest of this entry »
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I'm coping with my second breakup in a few months, and my pain has eased off considerably since the last post. If you got dumped or have some other difficult emotions that you can't let go of, I know where you're coming from. This might become a somewhat longer article, but if you're like me, letting some time pass might not seem like such a bad idea in your state.
I'm writing from my own viewpoint only to simplify things, but feel free to replace pronouns if you're female/gay, or use some of these techniques on entirely different emotions or situations that trouble you. This may read a little like a shopping list, but I do advocate trying all of these techniques, and repeat the ones that work best. It's not as if you had something better to do now, is it?
The Basics
Indeed, the first thing to realize - and it took me a while - is that this will take time. How much time? That depends. My mom once told me a month per relationship year. Personally, I have suffered longer and shorter, but that seems the ri
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