Posted by admin on 19 October 2009
I’ve always dreaded these two words. Structure and discipline sound like concepts from another age. Bleak, boring, and grey, something that old men praise. Aren’t we supposed to have fun? Well, fun is another quite problematic term, but let’s keep that for another post. The thing with structure and discipline is that I have rediscovered these values, and am in the process of making my peace with them. Read the rest of this entry »
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I've always dreaded these two words. Structure and discipline sound like concepts from another age. Bleak, boring, and grey, something that old men praise. Here's how I have rediscovered these values, and how to make your peace with them.
19Oct
Posted by admin on 28 June 2009
I’m coping with my second breakup in a few months, and my pain has eased off considerably since the last post. If you got dumped or have some other difficult emotions that you can’t let go of, I know where you’re coming from. This might become a somewhat longer article, but if you’re like me, letting some time pass might not seem like such a bad idea in your state. Read the rest of this entry »
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I'm coping with my second breakup in a few months, and my pain has eased off considerably since the last post. If you got dumped or have some other difficult emotions that you can't let go of, I know where you're coming from. This might become a somewhat longer article, but if you're like me, letting some time pass might not seem like such a bad idea in your state.
I'm writing from my own viewpoint only to simplify things, but feel free to replace pronouns if you're female/gay, or use some of these techniques on entirely different emotions or situations that trouble you. This may read a little like a shopping list, but I do advocate trying all of these techniques, and repeat the ones that work best. It's not as if you had something better to do now, is it?
The Basics
Indeed, the first thing to realize - and it took me a while - is that this will take time. How much time? That depends. My mom once told me a month per relationship year. Personally, I have suffered longer and shorter, but that seems the ri
28Jun
Posted by admin on 23 June 2009
Seven months ago, my longtime girlfriend finally couldn’t bear my falling in love with another new girl, and quit. The new lover left her then-boyfriend. We started having problems. Read the rest of this entry »
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Starting my blog and my new life from ground zero
23Jun
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